FOUNDATION ON MARRIAGE: Part 3 (Clinging close to each others)

In Relation to anyone or anything, next to our love relationship with God must always be our spouses.

Cling close to one another than anyone or anything else:

A husband and wife are to cling close to each others more than anyone else, close to each others more than any other family members, more than any of their relatives, more than their own father and mother, more than their brothers and sisters, more than their co workers in their works, and cling close to each others more than their own works.

That is why God said, “A man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? Matt 19:5

And then we also find in 1 Cor 11:3, that “Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman”..

So, this shows that they are to establish new family, and couples clinging close to each others than anyone else.

So many marriage problems happen in every corner of the world, and divorces and separations happen in every corner of the world. This is not the way God wants, and this is not God’s intention for marriages and families.

Only God is allowed to be closer between the relationship of a husband and a wife.

ROMANCE:

So, as they became more close to each others than anything else, and cling close to each others than anyone else, they can have a better romantic life and a better marriage life. A husband and wives must be romantic in the kitchen, in the bed room, in living room, sitting room, tv room or whatever we may call them, they can have more freedom to be romantic, more time just being alone together, and build their love relationship deeper.

They can have more time for communicating to one another, playing, having fun just together, discussing things and important matters.

Kiss me and kiss me again, for your love is sweeter than wine. Song of songs 1:2

“Let his left hand be under my head And his right hand embrace me.” Song of songs 8:3

What God has joined together, let no one separate: Mark 10:9

There are many things that can spoil our romance in a marriage, sometimes they are small little things that spoils romantic marriage life, and romance is an important part of a marriage.

Some few main things that can spoil our romances, relationships, and even marriage life could be –

Sometimes, too much works and no personal time for communications, discussions, good quality times, showing less love and care to one another, and less spending time together. Those things can spoil romances, even marriage life and relationships.

– Showing Concern: Your husband or wife will get jealous of you if you show more concern on others, anyone else, or even in wealth or money than him/her, but show less concern to him/her. That’s the way God created human beings. Show your most concern to your mate. #ShowMostConcern

– Time Together: Your husband or wife will get jealous of you if you spend more time with others, materials, computer or even works, but spend less time with him/her. We are to spend more time together. #SpendingGoodTimesTogether

– Communication: Your husband or wife will get jealous of you if you communicate more with others, but don’t communicate well with him/her. #Communication

Romance is a good thing that binds husbands and wives together.

Some people might say these are extreme, but these are truths. So many countless of marriages got problems in this world, and countless and countless of divorces and separations happened in every corner of this world.

And usually something else got in between, other men and women, relatives, family members, wealth and money, materials, technology, computer, works and other things. So, non of these things must come between a marriage life, we always need to check our first priority. In Relation to anyone or anything, next to our love relationship with God must always be our spouses, so that our marriage life would be bind better and continually build up, rather than moving toward destructions.

Paul said in 1 Cor 7:4 – The wife does not have Authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have Authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.

– David Chawngthu